{"id":333,"date":"2013-07-23T21:32:51","date_gmt":"2013-07-23T19:32:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tudorgrigoras.ro\/blog\/?p=333"},"modified":"2013-07-23T21:32:51","modified_gmt":"2013-07-23T19:32:51","slug":"despre-dependenta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tudorgrigoras.ro\/?p=333","title":{"rendered":"Despre dependen\u021b\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ei bine, da, Tudor este sau cel pu\u021bin se comport\u0103 ca \u0219i cum ar fi dependent de mine. Orice trebuie f\u0103cut pentru el (papa, baia, \u00eembr\u0103cat, schimbat pampers etc) trebuie f\u0103cut de mine c\u0103 altfel nu e bine. Sc\u00e2nce\u0219te nemul\u021bumit \u0219i cu boticul dulce bosumflat distribuie sarcinile: mama hai,\u00a0 tata pa-pa palcale (adic\u0103, tata du-te la parcare la ma\u0219ina!). Se dore\u0219te \u021binut de bra\u021be (de mine, evident!), iar dac\u0103 ies din camer\u0103 vine dup\u0103 mine. Citisem eu c\u0103 \u00een jurul acestei v\u00e2rste se manifest\u0103 puternic dependen\u021ba de mam\u0103, copilul devine practic umbra ta, dar pe Tudor l-a prins aceast\u0103 faz\u0103 de ceva timp \u0219i nu-i mai trece.. Cu toate astea, nu pe mine \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 imite (\u00een gesturi), ci pe Dan, tot el a r\u0103mas idolul lui \u00een via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Tot Dan a venit cu o nou\u0103 \u0219i revolu\u021bionar\u0103 (=eficient\u0103) modalitate de calmarea copilui seara, la culcare. \u00cencep\u00e2nd de pe la 5-6 luni, Tudor a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u0103 exist\u0103 un ritual de sear\u0103 (baie, lapte, nani) care trebuie respectat. A pl\u00e2ns el c\u00e2teva seri dup\u0103 ce \u00eel l\u0103sam singur in camer\u0103, dar apoi adormea \u0219i \u00een mai pu\u021bin de 1 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 micu\u021bul a fost ferberuit. Toate bune \u0219i frumoase p\u00e2n\u0103 de cur\u00e2nd c\u00e2nd Tudor a \u00eenceput s\u0103 protesteze iar \/pl\u00e2ng\u0103 c\u00e2nd ie\u0219eam din camer\u0103. Am stat o sear\u0103 l\u00e2ng\u0103 el, am stat dou\u0103, copilul se obi\u0219nuise deja s\u0103 nu mai adoarm\u0103 dac\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2ne singur, ceea ce nu este ok. Eu \u00eencercam s\u0103 ies p\u00e2\u0219-p\u00e2\u0219 din camer\u0103, dar micul vultur sim\u021bea imediat \u0219i se punea pe urlat. A\u0219a c\u0103 Dan a propus o abordare practic\u0103 \u0219i matur\u0103: inform\u0103m copilul \u0219i \u00eei cerem p\u0103rerea. Tudor face baia, bea laptele, \u00eel \u00eentreb\u0103m dac\u0103 i-a pl\u0103cut, \u00eel m\u00e2ng\u00e2iem de c\u00e2teva ori \u0219i \u00eei comunic\u0103m: mama se duce s\u0103 spele biberoanele, iar Tudor face nani, de acord? Copilul zice da \u0219i nu mai scoate un sunet. Simplu \u0219i productiv.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ei bine, da, Tudor este sau cel pu\u021bin se comport\u0103 ca \u0219i cum ar fi dependent de mine. Orice trebuie f\u0103cut pentru el (papa, baia, \u00eembr\u0103cat, schimbat pampers etc) trebuie f\u0103cut de mine c\u0103 altfel nu e bine. Sc\u00e2nce\u0219te nemul\u021bumit \u0219i cu boticul dulce bosumflat distribuie sarcinile: mama hai,\u00a0 tata pa-pa palcale (adic\u0103, tata du-te &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/tudorgrigoras.ro\/?p=333\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Despre dependen\u021b\u0103&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-333","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tudorgrigoras.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/333","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tudorgrigoras.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tudorgrigoras.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tudorgrigoras.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tudorgrigoras.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=333"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/tudorgrigoras.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/333\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tudorgrigoras.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=333"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tudorgrigoras.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=333"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tudorgrigoras.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=333"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}